Showing posts with label Nigeria. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Nigeria. Show all posts

Monday, February 4, 2013

SUPER EAGLES; HUNGER FOR SUCCESS VS EXPERIENCE



Blessings!  God bless and keep you in this month of February.  

I am not anywhere near what you will call a football fan, neither am I as educated in the game as a lot of people out there.  However, I do know a life principle when I see one.

At this time a few weeks back, in my home country, everyone had something to say about the Super Eagles; our National Football Team, the comments were largely consistent; most of it was negative.  The tournament started  and the mood   remained the same two draws  and a win  by the skin of our teeth   ushered  Nigeria  into  a Quarter final battle   against the  most prominent African time, Cote d’ Ivoire.  Almost everyone, was very sure that we were finished where football was concerned as a nation.  Then the worst happened.  The Coach, Stephen Keshi; for me one of the most purposeful ex national players for Nigeria, released the list of the members of the team that were going to be playing Ivory Coast and he had a number  of home based players!  It was like he poured petrol into an already raging fire, everyone wanted his head!  Surely, he had no idea what coaching was all about!





I didn’t watch any match prior to yesterday’s and I didn’t watch yesterday’s either, but you cannot be in Nigeria and not know what’s up if the national team is playing… so I heard all the commentaries from my brothers to my neighbours to people buildings away from us.  As you know Nigerians are pretty passionate people.  Even though I was in my bedroom trying to catch some much needed sleep, it was impossible to miss the fact that Nigeria had won the match.
By this morning, all of Facebook and Blackberry world had been overtaken by Nigerians who always ‘knew’ Nigeria had what it took… everyone suddenly is very proud of our national team and  are expressing  belief in Stephen Keshi’s strategy.  I am not going to try and pick holes in their sudden change of heart and belief but I do know that if you are pursuing a dream, then you can learn a thing or two from this experience.

 
1.       THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM AT THE TOP:- In discussing this subject with my husband this morning, (he is a football aficionado) he told me that Clemens Westerhof had pulled this same feat off in the past, (in AFCON  1990).  But he was pretty sure that a foreign club side does not make the player, what makes him is his talent and his commitment to success.  Just like everyone wrote the team off because it had more home based players than internationals, people may look at your small dream now and write you off. But if you have the same hunger for success like those young men had yesterday, even a savvy and favourite tournament team like the Elephants will not stop you.

2.      PEOPLE ARE LOOKING FOR FRESH EVEN WHEN THEY DON’T KNOW IT – As with most things in life, when we get used to stuff, venturing out  in any other direction can be very uncomfortable, but it doesn’t take away from the fact that when we get ‘fresh’ we are relieved.  The home based players were fresh, inexperienced at that level maybe; but fresh.  Even with your businesses and dream, the key is to be fresh.  Give them something extra in unexpected doses or fashion… even if you are pursuing a dream in a field others have excelled, what makes you stand out is not doing it exactly like they have, but in presenting your own to them fresh.

3.      FRESH HAS SOMETHING TO PROVE – When everyone kept castigating Coach Stephen Keshi’s choice of players, I wondered what their problem was… basically, if these internationals were that good and they are, why will they risk tarnishing their image and reputation on a team most say has been jinxed for nineteen years?  What will playing at AFCON bring them that they don’t already have?  Fame? Money? What?  The home based players on the other hand, were green and fresh, probably never been outside the shores of Nigeria… maybe dreaming to adorn themselves in the national kit was even a tall order.  But here is opportunity thrown on their laps… in my experience people like these have something to prove!  It is why I will prefer to do business with a young up and coming ‘start up’ any day over an established structured one, especially when I need someone to give me great service.  All of us small businesses and new dreamers on the block have something to prove.  What this means is we go the extra mile.  So the next time someone asks you why they should trust you to deliver, tell them because you have something to prove.

Well I did say I was no football buff per se, but I do hope you can draw these parallels between the Super Eagles and you; trying to chart a course for your dream and create a world class business.  In the final analysis, just like the Super Eagles went on to surprise even their most ardent supporters, you too can go on to surprise even yourself.

Remember no matter what they say, you will make it NeverTheLess!

Here is to your success!

Sistar B

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Your Behaviour Vs Your Belief




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Welcome!  It is a brand new month and I am so sorry this week’s post is a day late.  Was traveling and needed some rest.  Anyhow, I am sure you had a great weekend and are back into your week to take full charge of your destiny.

My country Nigeria turned 52 and while it seems there is nothing to celebrate, I do think we all by now know how not to be a nation.  And while learning how not to be a nation, I am pretty sure that some of us may have learnt how to be one.  No matter what happens, I am a firm believer in the greatness that is Nigeria and I know that when the time for manifestation comes, we will manifest in Jesus name.
However, I cannot stop just by my beliefs; there is a need for me to move away from talking about what I believe about Nigeria and doing something about what it.  In Biblical language, it is said “that faith without works is dead”.  This simply means that until our behavior aligns with our beliefs, we are just pushing and peddling dead and idle talk.  Life and dreams go beyond what we believe to achieve, it all goes beyond what our potential or skills say about us.  It is always and will always come down to expressing behavior that aligns with the dreams in my heart.

If your dream is to write a book, then it is time, to stop talking about the content of the book and begin to create it.  The book will continue to remain a figment of your imagination, except you begin to actually write down the words that will make the book.  The English have an expression for those who only talk but never act; it is called building castles in the air!

Our life work and dream work is beyond how grand and lofty our vision is, it is beyond where we hope to end up and it begins with taking the first step towards our dream destination!  The first step may not make headline news, but it is your first step and you should be proud of you!  No other person may notice your first step, but it is your first step in the right direction and you should celebrate it.

For my nation, I know it is time for us to commit individually to uphold the nation that our fore fathers suffered to build!  The nation they were willing to die for.  At the weekend someone told us that if we were unsure what the original idea for our nation is, then we should go back to the original document.  He made us go through the National Anthem and Pledge line by line; and it was very clear again that our founding fathers had a dream for a really great nation.

We all need to ARISE and take the first step towards behavior that aligns with the beliefs upon which Nigeria is founded, if we do, it will not be long before we begin to manifest the greatness that we are!  

For your dream, it is no different, should circumstances have rendered you disillusioned and tired, then it is time to go back to your dream book, what did you write down when you set out?  How excited were you that day? What behavior do you have that aligns with your belief and your vision? What were you doing initially that you are no longer doing?  It is time to awaken, it is time to arise.  Take that first baby step to begin to align your behavior to your belief.  

You will make it NeverTheLess, Nigeria will make it, I not only believe it, I am aligning my behavior to my belief.  Will you?

Hugs

Sistar B